Myths and Misconceptions

Myths and Misconceptions

Brian K Proulx, CCHt

Myths and Misconceptions about Hypnosis

If you’ve read my post, “What Is Hypnosis?”, you likely realize that hypnosis is widely misunderstood. Most perceptions stem from the entertainment industry, particularly media and Hollywood portrayals, which depict hypnotists as mystical figures or hypnosis as mind control. Below are 24 common myths and misconceptions about hypnosis, debunked with facts to clarify its true nature as a safe, effective, and natural therapeutic tool.

Myth #1: A Hypnotist Is Gifted with Unique, Mystical, or Unusual Powers

Misconception: Media often portray hypnotists as possessing supernatural abilities, using mysterious techniques to control minds, fostering the belief that they have special powers.
Fact: A hypnotist is an ordinary person without mystical or unusual powers. A well-trained hypnotist understands that individuals hypnotize themselves, with the hypnotist delivering suggestions to facilitate an altered state of mind and teaching clients to self-induce hypnosis. Hypnotherapists are trained professionals who help clients tap into their subconscious resources. For example, a client seeking to reduce anxiety might learn to visualize a calm space, guided by our expertise but driven by their own focus and imagination. Hypnotherapists come from diverse backgrounds, united by a passion for helping others, not by extraordinary traits.

Myth #2: You May Get “Stuck” in Hypnosis or Remain in It for a Long Time

Misconception: Films like Get Out suggest hypnotized individuals can become trapped in a trance, unable to “wake up,” creating fears of losing control.
Fact: No one has ever remained indefinitely in a hypnotic state. Hypnosis is a voluntary state you can exit at will, as simply as opening your eyes. You remain fully in control and do not lose consciousness or fall asleep. It involves deep relaxation with enhanced communication between the conscious and subconscious mind, where you actively participate and can even direct the session. For instance, a client addressing insomnia might end a session feeling refreshed, choosing to open their eyes whenever ready, with no risk of being “stuck.”

Myth #3: Hypnosis Effects a Cure in Just One or Two Sessions

Misconception: Movies like “Now You See Me” show hypnosis resolving complex issues instantly, setting unrealistic expectations of a quick fix.
Fact: While one or two sessions may help with simple habits, most goals require several sessions for lasting results. Hypnosis is not a panacea; it facilitates change through collaboration and commitment, not instant miracles. For example, a client aiming to quit smoking might use hypnosis to reinforce a smoke-free mindset over 4-6 sessions, paired with lifestyle changes. Hypnotherapists create personalized plans to ensure steady progress toward your goals.

Myth #4: Many People Cannot Be Hypnotized

Misconception: Media portrayals suggest hypnosis is elusive, working only for a select few, leading some to believe they’re inherently unhypnotizable.
Fact: Approximately 90% of people can be hypnotized, with studies showing higher intelligence often correlates with greater hypnotizability. If you believe “I cannot be hypnotized,” this self-suggestion may create resistance, but it’s not a fixed barrier. Our hypnotherapists work with clients to build trust and openness, easing them into the process. For instance, a skeptical client seeking stress relief might initially resist but achieve a light trance by focusing on relaxation, proving their natural ability to be hypnotized.

Myth #5: Only the Gullible or Weak-Minded Can Be Hypnotized

Misconception: TV shows imply that only easily swayed individuals can be hypnotized, suggesting hypnotizability reflects mental weakness.
Fact: Hypnosis requires imagination, cooperation, and willingness to accept suggestions, not gullibility. Intelligent, creative individuals are often the best candidates, as they can engage deeply with the process, while those with limited cognitive abilities may struggle. Highly analytical or controlling individuals might find it harder but can succeed with guidance. For example, a creative entrepreneur might use hypnosis to boost innovation, leveraging their mental flexibility. Some Hypnotherapists, tailor sessions to your strengths, ensuring hypnosis is accessible to motivated clients.

Myth #6: When in Hypnosis, You Are Out of Control

Misconception: Hollywood depicts hypnotized people as puppets, controlled by the hypnotist, fostering fears of losing agency.
Fact: You cannot be hypnotized against your will; hypnosis requires your desire, confidence in the hypnotist, willingness to accept suggestions, and freedom from fear or control needs. As hypnotist Dave Elman noted, “Remove fear, the biggest block of all, and you’ll be able to hypnotize one hundred people out of a hundred.” For instance, a client addressing public speaking fear retains full control, choosing to visualize confidence while rejecting uncomfortable suggestions. Our practice fosters a safe, trusting environment where you guide the process as an active participant.

Myth #7: Hypnosis Involves Surrendering Your Will to the Hypnotist

Misconception: Media suggests a hypnotist’s “stronger soul” dominates a “weaker soul,” forcing clients to commit crimes or act against morals.
Fact: A hypnotist has no power over you; you retain autonomy and cannot be compelled to act against your moral principles or commit illegal acts. Hypnosis enhances awareness, connecting the conscious and subconscious mind, and you remain fully conscious, rejecting improper suggestions. Modern hypnotherapy uses “in hypnosis” to describe the state, avoiding phrases like “under hypnosis” that imply dominance. For example, a client using hypnosis to improve focus would dismiss any unethical suggestion, as their values remain intact. Hypnotherapists act as facilitators, empowering you to resolve issues using your inner resources.

Myth #8: Hypnosis Is a Sleep-Like, Unconscious State

Misconception: TV shows portray hypnosis as unconsciousness, where individuals are unaware of their surroundings, resembling sleep.
Fact: Hypnosis involves heightened awareness, not unconsciousness. You remain fully aware of your surroundings and the hypnotherapist’s voice, with enhanced sensory acuity (hyper-acuity) that makes you more attuned to sounds and activities. For instance, a client addressing anxiety might vividly experience a calming visualization while hearing ambient sounds, able to reject any suggestion at will. As one hypnotist put it, “I am not here to put people to sleep; I am here to assist in waking them up.” We ensure sessions feel like an active, empowering process.

Myth #9: You Must Be Deeply Hypnotized to Benefit

Misconception: Media implies that only a deep trance yields results, leading clients to worry they won’t achieve a “deep enough” state.
Fact: Positive results can be achieved in a light trance; deep hypnosis is not necessary. Accepting suggestions in a relaxed, focused state is sufficient. For example, a client seeking better sleep might benefit from a light trance visualizing restful nights, experiencing immediate improvements.Hypnotherapists adapt to your comfort level, ensuring effective outcomes regardless of trance depth.

Myth #10: Hypnosis Is Unnatural or Supernatural

Misconception: Hollywood’s mystical depictions suggest hypnosis is an unnatural or supernatural phenomenon, detached from everyday experience.
Fact: Hypnosis is a natural, altered state of mind we all experience, like zoning out while driving or reading. It offers therapeutic benefits by accessing the subconscious, with no supernatural elements. For instance, a client using hypnosis to enhance creativity might feel it’s like their usual brainstorming flow, just guided. Our practice demystifies hypnosis, presenting it as a practical tool for personal growth.

Myth #11: Hypnosis Is Merely Relaxation and Nothing More

Misconception: Some believe hypnosis is just relaxation, akin to meditation or a nap, with no deeper impact.
Fact: While relaxation is a component of some trance states, hypnosis is distinct, involving focused suggestion to access the subconscious and effect change. You can be hypnotized without being relaxed, and relaxation alone isn’t hypnosis. For example, a client addressing a phobia might enter a trance while alert, focusing on new responses, not just relaxing. We use hypnosis to target specific goals, going beyond mere relaxation.

Myth #12: Hypnosis Is Catalepsy, and You Cannot Move

Misconception: Media confuses hypnosis with catalepsy, a medical condition involving rigidity and unresponsiveness, suggesting hypnotized people are immobile.
Fact: Hypnosis is not catalepsy. The “hypnotic coma” is a misnomer for profound relaxation, where you may choose not to move but remain conscious and able to act at any time. For instance, a client in a deeply relaxed session might feel still but can stand or speak if desired. Our sessions ensure you feel free and in control, with no physical restrictions.

Myth #13: Your Eyes Must Be Closed for Hypnosis

Misconception: TV shows depict closed eyes as essential for hypnosis, implying it’s impossible otherwise.
Fact: Hypnosis can occur with eyes open, as seen in everyday trances like zoning out while driving. Closing eyes often enhances focus, but it’s not required. For example, a client might enter a trance with eyes open, focusing on a visualization while fully aware. We adapt to your preferences, ensuring comfort whether your eyes are open or closed.

Myth #14: Hypnosis Is Brainwashing

Misconception: Films equate hypnosis with brainwashing, suggesting it forcibly alters beliefs or personality, akin to indoctrination.
Fact: Brainwashing involves coercive indoctrination to destroy beliefs, often through deprivation. Hypnosis is fundamentally different, a voluntary process empowering clients to make positive changes while respecting their autonomy and values. For example, a client addressing self-doubt might reinforce confidence through hypnosis, choosing suggestions that align with their goals. Hypnotherapists ensure you retain control, enhancing your mind’s natural abilities.

Myth #15: Hypnosis Is Anti-Religious

Misconception: Some fear hypnosis conflicts with religious beliefs, viewing it as mystical or anti-spiritual due to media portrayals.
Fact: Hypnosis is a neutral tool with no religious connotations, compatible with most faiths, including Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, and Buddhism, when used ethically. It supports goals like pain relief or fear reduction, respecting your spiritual beliefs. For example, a client might use hypnosis to reinforce faith-based affirmations, such as inner peace, aligning with their values. We tailor sessions to honor your beliefs, ensuring an inclusive approach.

Myth #16: Repressed Trauma Memories Always Emerge in Hypnosis

Misconception: TV dramas suggest hypnosis automatically surfaces repressed trauma, causing distress or uncontrollable flashbacks.
Fact: Hypnosis doesn’t automatically trigger repressed memories; they emerge only if you’re ready and if intentionally sought by you or the hypnotherapist. You remain in control and won’t face memories unprepared. For example, a client addressing a fear might choose to explore related memories for healing, guided gently to ensure comfort. Our practice prioritizes your emotional safety, using hypnosis responsibly.

Myth #17: Hypnosis Causes Deafness or Memory Loss

Misconception: Hollywood scenes imply hypnosis leads to sensory loss or amnesia, with characters forgetting sessions or losing hearing.
Fact: Hypnosis enhances sensory awareness and memory, not diminishes them. You’ll remember sessions clearly, feeling rested and refreshed, with no impact on hearing or cognitive function. For instance, a client using hypnosis for focus might recall vivid session details, like a mental image of success, with heightened clarity. We ensure transparency, addressing concerns to build trust.

Myth #18: Hypnosis Is Not an Effective Modality

Misconception: Some believe hypnosis is ineffective, dismissing it as a placebo or entertainment trick due to media exaggerations.
Fact: Hypnosis is highly effective, supported by research. A study reported in American Health Magazine found hypnotherapy achieved a 93% recovery rate after 6 sessions, compared to 72% for behavior therapy after 22 sessions and 38% for psychoanalysis after 600 sessions. Clients have successfully reduced anxiety or quit habits in fewer sessions than traditional therapies. Our evidence-based approach delivers measurable results, tailored to your needs.

Myth #19: Hypnosis Is Mind Control or Brainwashing

Misconception: Hollywood often portrays hypnosis as mind control, where a hypnotist can force someone to act against their will, like a puppet on strings (e.g., villains using swinging watches to manipulate victims). This creates fear that hypnosis strips away autonomy.
Fact: Hypnosis is a collaborative process requiring your consent and active participation. You cannot be hypnotized against your will or made to do anything that violates your moral or ethical values. In hypnotherapy, you remain in control, entering a relaxed state of focused attention where the conscious mind’s critical factor—a filter that evaluates new ideas—is bypassed to access the subconscious. For example, a client overcoming public speaking fear might visualize success, but they’d never act foolishly unless willingly participating in a stage show.

Myth #20: Hypnosis Puts You to Sleep or Makes You Unconscious

Misconception: Media often show hypnotized individuals slumped over, seemingly asleep or unaware, reinforcing the idea that hypnosis induces a loss of consciousness.
Fact: Hypnosis is a state of heightened focus and relaxation, not sleep or unconsciousness, where you’re fully aware of your surroundings. It’s like being engrossed in a book or movie, where distractions fade, yet awareness remains. For instance, a client addressing stress might visualize a serene beach while staying alert to the therapist’s guidance, able to respond or recall the session clearly.

Myth #21: Hypnosis Can Make You Reveal Secrets or Act Embarrassingly

Misconception: Stage hypnosis shows, where participants perform silly acts like dancing or barking, lead people to believe hypnosis forces them to reveal private information or behave foolishly against their will.
Fact: Hypnosis cannot compel you to disclose secrets or act against your values. Stage hypnosis involves pre-screened, willing participants who agree to perform for entertainment. In therapeutic hypnosis, the focus is on your goals, like reframing limiting beliefs, with no risk of involuntary disclosures. For example, a client using hypnosis to quit smoking visualizes a smoke-free life, not sharing private details, as your autonomy is respected.

Myth #22: Hypnosis Is a Magic Cure or Instant Fix

Misconception: Hollywood depicts hypnosis as a quick, miraculous solution, resolving complex issues like phobias or addictions in one session.
Fact: Hypnosis is powerful but not a magic bullet. It facilitates change by accessing the subconscious to reframe beliefs, often requiring multiple sessions and your commitment. Outcomes depend on your openness and effort, sometimes complemented by other therapies. For instance, a client addressing anxiety might use hypnosis to visualize calm responses, but lasting change involves practice and lifestyle adjustments.

Myth #23: Only Weak-Minded or Gullible People Can Be Hypnotized

Misconception: Media suggest hypnosis only works on those who are easily manipulated, creating a stigma around suggestibility.
Fact: Hypnotizability is a natural ability tied to focus, imagination, and openness, not weakness. Most people can be hypnotized, with creative or focused individuals often responding best. In our practice, strong-minded clients, like professionals seeking performance enhancement, excel because they engage deeply. For example, a CEO might use hypnosis to boost leadership confidence, leveraging mental discipline.

Myth #24: Hypnosis Is Dangerous or Can Trap You in a Trance

Misconception: Movies portray hypnosis as risky, with characters getting “stuck” in a trance or facing psychological harm, fueling fears of losing control.
Fact: Hypnosis is a safe, natural state you can enter and exit voluntarily, with no risk of being trapped. You return to full awareness at any time, even if a session is interrupted. We emphasize safety, advising consultation with healthcare professionals for medical or psychological issues. For example, a client addressing insomnia might end a session feeling refreshed, able to open their eyes anytime, with no adverse effects.

Conclusion

Now that you understand what hypnosis is not, consider exploring it firsthand to experience its benefits as a tool for personal growth, stress relief, or behavior change. Try a guided hypnosis recording to see how it works for you. . Click here to listen.

References

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The Ekman’s Atlas of Emotions

The Ekman’s Atlas of Emotions

The Edman’s Atlas of Emotions is a tool to help people better understand what emotions are, how they are triggered and what their effects are, and how to become aware of emotions acting on them.

This is really cool! So you will have to click the link below

http://atlasofemotions.com/

Hypnosis for Pain and/or Suffering

Hypnosis for Pain and/or Suffering

A great article by a fellow collegue!

Hypnosis for Pain and/or Suffering

by Herve Boisde

Pain equals suffering and suffering equals pain. Right? Actually no. They are different and one does not necessarily need to follow the other. Pain is a physical response to a stimulus. Suffering is emotional. We need to experience pain in certain situations in order to be safe. If there was no pain response we could burn ourselves and not even notice it. Or we might not be cautious when playing rough sports. Pain is important feedback for our health. Suffering on the other hand may linger after the physical pain has died away, because, like many emotions, it can be habit forming. When we expect to suffer we tend to help those expectations come true. Suffering is the emotional pain caused by the resistance to what is. Sometimes we suffer because we don’t accept our situation. Sometimes when we get sick we fall into self-pity mode and think “why me?”  And that very attitude can cause us to neglect doing the things that would help us to get better. In those situations we’re not only resisting ‘what is’ but we’re actually making things worse.

With chronic pain or injuries people tend to tense up when they are in situations that usually cause pain. For example, if someone has back pain and they are dreading having to bend down to tie their shoes, they will usually brace themselves and tense up as they are bending down. Again, this is a form of resisting the pain and making things worse. Fear of pain leads to tensing up, which then leads to a cycle of suffering. You might be thinking: “It’s impossible to NOT brace yourself for pain. Pain hurts!” Yes, pain can hurt and it’s perfectly normal to want to avoid it but there are techniques that work to allow your mind and body to feel more comfortable in those situations. Hypnosis can be used to condition your body to relax in those ‘trigger’ situations and help break the fear-of-pain cycle. The hypnosis practitioner would actually deliver a post-hypnotic suggestion to the client’s subconscious mind such as:

“(Client’s name), when doing things like bending down to tie shoelaces, you are calm, confident, and relaxed. More and more now, your back muscles are flexible and comfortable when bending down and standing up. Because you expect to be comfortable, you are more comfortable when bending down and standing up.

One of the more impressive things that happened when I was at hypnotherapy school was when the class watched a video of a patient undergoing major leg surgery (with a bone saw and everything) with no anesthesia except for hypnosis. I felt like I was in more discomfort just watching the video than the patient. A close second was a video that our instructor shot of himself getting a crown replaced at the dentist. He doesn’t like Novocaine so he instead used self-hypnosis to put himself into a comfortable trance where the dentist could do the procedure and he was awake and conscious, just feeling no pain.  I’m not sure that I would attempt that but he was well practiced enough with self-hypnosis that he was completely confident that it would be successful. Of course he had also instructed the dentist that if he put his hand up it meant that he was feeling pain and would receive the Novocaine. He never raised his hand.

The conscious mind can only focus on one thought at a time so hypnotherapy can direct the client to empty his mind of the experience of pain by filling it instead with pleasurable thoughts.  A person with a broken limb might visualize that they are on a beach in Hawaii and focus instead on the warm sun on their face, the cool breeze, the relaxing sounds of the ocean, and the feel of the fine sand next to their plush beach blanket. The hypnosis practitioner could either anchor that comfortable feeling so that it can summoned up whenever the client touches their thumb and forefinger together, or teach the client self-hypnosis so they can go back to Hawaii whenever they want. They might also record a self-hypnosis CD or audio file for the client to listen to as they are falling asleep at night, with added suggestions for a comfortable night’s sleep!

These are just some examples of how hypnosis can be used for pain management. But all of us have the ability to look at pain and suffering in a different way.

You Are Not Broken: Hypnotherapy vs. Psychotherapy

You Are Not Broken: Hypnotherapy vs. Psychotherapy

You Are Not Broken: Hypnotherapy vs. Psychotherapy

 

By Donald Michael Kraig

In 1885, a young Austrian traveled to France to study with Jean-Martin Charcot, Europe’s premier neurologist and hypnotist. The young man thought that hypnosis might hold the cure for mental illness. A year later, and just married, he opened a medical practice specializing in neurology (disorders of the nervous system) and the use of hypnosis.

The young man’s success was limited. He wasn’t good at hypnosis, and couldn’t often obtain cures. He needed a way to regularly get results. He also wanted a system that would take longer to cure people. Hypnosis worked quickly. He wanted to keep charging patients for repeated appointments—he was tired of being broke! He eventually discovered ways to do this through asking leading questions and listening to his patients talk, combined with clues revealed in their dreams. This system became known as “the talking cure,” and was the basis for a new science: psychoanalysis. The young doctor (and failed hypnotist) was Sigmund Freud.

It was thanks to Freud that hypnotherapy and psychotherapy went in different directions. Although they help people with similar issues, their approaches are different:

Psychotherapy—You come to a psychotherapist because there’s something wrong with you—you are broken. Your therapist (or you and your therapist) will fix the problem. One of the most popular styles of psychotherapy is not strictly Freudian. Known as CBT or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, it seeks to get practical and effective changes more quickly. Often, once a patient is diagnosed, a psychotherapist will use a book known as the DSM-IV to determine how long it should take to cure the patient. I refer to this as “process-centered” therapy. People are considered machines in this discipline, and the same repair is assumed to fix all similar machines in the same length of time. Generally, that’s all insurance will cover. Psychotherapy uses the conscious mind to eventually access the unconscious, and hopefully release problems.

Hypnotherapy—In hypnotherapy, it’s understood that you are not broken. You’re doing the best you can with the knowledge, training and experience you have. Because you are not broken, a hypnotherapist neither fixes nor cures you. He or she simply gives you new knowledge and training so that together you can change unwanted behaviors and eliminate unwanted beliefs. Hypnotherapy bypasses the conscious mind and works directly with the unconscious, the location of the unwanted behavior or belief.

In hypnotherapy, each person is considered an individual, and treatment is unique to that person. I refer to this as “client-centered” therapy. Hypnotists will often train in numerous approaches to be able to provide a client with exactly the work that is needed.

If your only knowledge of hypnosis comes from movies or live shows, you should know that the nature of hypnotherapy today is greatly different than in the past. Beginning in the 1940s, psychiatrist Milton H. Erickson revolutionized the nature of hypnotherapy. He analyzed the nature of trance and how people accept suggestions. Instead of ordering people around with “You are getting sleepy!” commands, he started giving more apparent control to the patient (“You may find that you’re getting sleepy, and can close your eyes when you want to”). Hypnotic suggestions changed from direct instructions (“You will stop biting your nails”) to metaphoric tales and stories that led a patient’s unconscious mind to change unwanted behavior on its own.

Both psychotherapy and hypnotherapy have many uses. They’re great for overcoming fears and problems that keep you from being social and succeeding in life. Some physical problems have mental causes, and they can be treated with hypnotherapy or psychotherapy. Hypnotherapy tends to succeed more quickly, and is less expensive, but often isn’t covered by medical insurance. In the U.S., psychotherapists are licensed by states, while hypnotherapists are certified by self-governing organizations. Unfortunately, the quality of both psychotherapists and hypnotherapists varies widely, and if you choose to use one or another, you should ask for references.

Donald Michael Kraig graduated from UCLA with a degree in philosophy, and has become a certified hypnotherapist and Master NLP practitioner. After years of personal work and study, Don began teaching workshops on the Kabalah, Tarot, Magick, past lives, Tantra, meditation, the chakras and numerous other subjects throughout the U.S. and in Europe. His book, Modern Magick, is the most popular step-by-step course in real magick ever published.

The Power of Suggestion

The Power of Suggestion

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Why does one person have success after success and another has challenges just meeting daily standards? Why do similar people in style, talent and opportunity have wide discrepancies in results? There are two types of people. One is energized with confidence and faith. He or she sees possibilities for success everywhere. He “knows” that he is born to win and succeed. She “knows” good fortune favors the bold. Calculated risk brings out the best in this person.

Then there is the type of person that is de-energized. He has fears and doubts. Not necessarily doubts or fears of reaching mediocrity, but low energy for reaching maximum performance potential. This person thinks problems. He fears risk and avoids confrontation. What is the secret that one person possesses that sets him or her apart from their contemporaries?

The secret to one’s success lies in the power found in the subconscious mind, the computer storehouse for infinite intelligence. The mind governs, controls and directs your life. And yes… you have free will to protect it from negative influence and nurture it for your positive gain.

Your subconscious mind is behind the scenes like the Wizard of Oz. It is pulling the strings of your successes and your failures. It is amenable to suggestion. This is the good news and the bad news. And whatever you impress on your subconscious will be expressed on the screen of space as events, conditions, circumstances, situations or experiences. “Garbage in, garbage out!”

Plant positive seeds of thought and you’ll reap a bountiful harvest.
Plant negative seeds of thought and you may rue the day.

Check the suggestions that people give to you. You will find that many of these suggestions are for the purpose of making you think, feel and act, as others want you to and in ways that are to their advantage. Study what is said. Much is propaganda. Many statements to you are based on false assumptions, hearsay or gossip.

Some examples are:

You need luck to do that!
You haven’t got a chance
It’s no use.
It’s not what you know, but whom you know.
You’re too old.
We can’t win for losing.
You can’t trust a soul.
The world’s all screwed up.
What’s the world coming to?
Life’s an endless grind.
I figured that would happen.
You’ll never amount to anything
That’s just the way you are.
Love is for the birds.
Watch out, you’ll get the flu.
Everybody’s getting sick.
I told you that wouldn’t work.
That’s just the way it goes.
You can’t expect to succeed all of the time.
You win some and you lose some.
It’s all about the law of averages.
If you didn’t have any bad luck, you wouldn’t have any luck at all.
There’s not enough time in the day.
If we had better direction, we would perform better.
Why try? It’s not appreciated. It does us no good.
They don’t care what we do.
I’m just going to do my job and keep my mouth shut.

Do not initiate or pass along these types of statements.

More importantly, do NOT accept these suggestions. Most people want to be liked. It’s because of this feeling and the need for acceptance that we agree with other people’s sentiments, statements and feelings. Living in Chicago, you can be asked daily about the weather (especially this time of year). “The weather is so cold here. Don’t you wish you lived in a warmer place?” The best response is, “I love Chicago and I don’t mind the changing seasons.” But most of us want to be accepted and don’t want to offend the person asking the question. The typical response is to agree. “Yeah, I hate the weather here. I wish I had a home on the beach.”

You control what goes into your subconscious. You are the master filter. You have to give your mental consent. Other people’s thoughts must become yours for it to be an action in your mind. If the words are not to your liking, dismiss them or replace them with what’s positive for you.

Once your subconscious mind fully accepts an idea or thought, it begins to execute it. If the suggestion is negative and you accept it, you will be on your way to the mindset of a victim or judge. This is not the mindset of the champion.

Your subconscious does not reason or think things out. It does not argue. It does not make comparisons or contrasts. It is like the soil that accepts any kind of seed, good or bad. This computer storehouse doesn’t know or care whether your thoughts are good or bad, true or false or right or wrong.

Remember!

Whatever your subconscious believes and expects will manifest into its physical equivalent. Thoughts of despair and money woes will keep you in poverty. Thoughts of prosperity will lead to wealth and abundance.

Stand guard and protect your greatest possession. Free Will.

Stay in the Zone!

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‘Incognito’: What’s Hiding In The Unconscious Mind

‘Incognito’: What’s Hiding In The Unconscious Mind

 

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Your brain doesn’t like to keep secrets. Studies at the University of Texas, Austin, have shown that writing down secrets in a journal or telling a doctor your secrets actually decreases the level of stress hormones in your body. Keeping a secret, meanwhile, does the opposite.

Your brain also doesn’t like stress hormones. So when you have a secret to tell, the part of your brain that wants to tell the secret is constantly fighting with the part of your brain that wants to keep the information hidden, says neuroscientist David Eagleman.

“You have competing populations in the brain — one part that wants to tell something and one part that doesn’t,” he tells Fresh Air’s Terry Gross. “And the issue is that we’re always cussing at ourselves or getting angry at ourselves or cajoling ourselves. … What we’re seeing here is that there are different parts of the brain that are battling it out. And the way that that battle tips, determines your behavior.”

Eagleman’s new book, Incognito, examines the unconscious part of our brains — the complex neural networks that are constantly fighting one another and influencing how we act, the things we’re attracted to, and the thoughts that we have.

“All of our lives — our cognition, our thoughts, our beliefs — all of these are underpinned by these massive lightning storms of [electrical] activity [in our brains,] and yet we don’t have any awareness of it,” he says. “What we find is that our brains have colossal things happening in them all the time.”

On today’s Fresh Air, Eagleman explains how learning more about the unconscious portions of our brain can teach us more about time, reality, consciousness, religion and crime.

Eagleman is a neuroscientist at Baylor College of Medicine and directs the Laboratory for Perception and Action. He is also the author of Wednesday is Indigo Blue: Discovering the Brain of Synesthesia and Sum: Forty Takes from the Afterlives.

Excerpt: ‘Incognito: The Secret Lives Of The Brain’
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Published May 31, 201110:08 AM ET
DAVID EAGLEMAN
Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain
INCOGNITO: THE SECRET LIVES OF THE BRAIN
BY DAVID EAGLEMAN
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Chapter 1: There’s Someone In My Head, But It’s Not Me

Take a close look at yourself in the mirror. Beneath your dashing good looks churns a hidden universe of networked machinery. The machinery includes a sophisticated scaffolding of interlocking bones, a netting of sinewy muscles, a good deal of specialized fluid, and a collaboration of internal organs chugging away in darkness to keep you alive. A sheet of high-tech self-healing sensory material that we call skin seamlessly covers your machinery in a pleasing package.

And then there’s your brain. Three pounds of the most complex material we’ve discovered in the universe. This is the mission control center that drives the whole operation, gathering dispatches through small portals in the armored bunker of the skull.

Your brain is built of cells called neurons and glia — hundreds of billions of them. Each one of these cells is as complicated as a city. And each one contains the entire human genome and traffics billions of molecules in intricate economies. Each cell sends electrical pulses to other cells, up to hundreds of times per second. If you represented each of these trillions and trillions of pulses in your brain by a single photon of light, the combined output would be blinding.

The cells are connected to one another in a network of such staggering complexity that it bankrupts human language and necessitates new strains of mathematics. A typical neuron makes about ten thousand connections to neighboring neurons. Given the billions of neurons, this means there are as many connections in a single cubic centimeter of brain tissue as there are stars in the Milky Way galaxy.

The three-pound organ in your skull — with its pink consistency of Jell-o — is an alien kind of computational material. It is composed of miniaturized, self-configuring parts, and it vastly outstrips anything we’ve dreamt of building. So if you ever feel lazy or dull, take heart: you’re the busiest, brightest thing on the planet.

Ours is an incredible story. As far as anyone can tell, we’re the only system on the planet so complex that we’ve thrown ourselves headlong into the game of deciphering our own programming language. Imagine that your desktop computer began to control its own peripheral devices, removed its own cover, and pointed its webcam at its own circuitry. That’s us.

And what we’ve discovered by peering into the skull ranks among the most significant intellectual developments of our species: the recognition that the innumerable facets of our behavior, thoughts, and experience are inseparably yoked to a vast, wet, chemical-electrical network called the nervous system. The machinery is utterly alien to us, and yet, somehow, it is us.

THE TREMENDOUS MAGIC

In 1949, Arthur Alberts traveled from his home in Yonkers, New York, to villages between the Gold Coast and Timbuktu in West Africa. He brought his wife, a camera, a jeep, and — because of his love of music — a jeep-powered tape recorder. Wanting to open the ears of the western world, he recorded some of the most important music ever to come out of Africa. But Alberts ran into social troubles while using the tape recorder. One West African native heard his voice played back and accused Alberts of “stealing his tongue.” Alberts only narrowly averted being pummeled by taking out a mirror and convincing the man that his tongue was still intact.

It’s not difficult to see why the natives found the tape recorder so counterintuitive. A vocalization seems ephemeral and ineffable: it is like opening a bag of feathers which scatter on the breeze and can never be retrieved. Voices are weightless and odorless, something you cannot hold in your hand.

So it comes as a surprise that a voice is physical. If you build a little machine sensitive enough to detect tiny compressions of the molecules in the air, you can capture these density changes and reproduce them later. We call these machines microphones, and every one of the billions of radios on the planet is proudly serving up bags of feathers once thought irretrievable. When Alberts played the music back from the tape recorder, one West African tribesman depicted the feat as “tremendous magic.”

And so it goes with thoughts. What exactly is a thought? It doesn’t seem to weigh anything. It feels ephemeral and ineffable. You wouldn’t think that a thought has a shape or smell or any sort of physical instantiation. Thoughts seem to be a kind of tremendous magic.

But just like voices, thoughts are underpinned by physical stuff. We know this because alterations to the brain change the kinds of thoughts we can think. In a state of deep sleep, there are no thoughts. When the brain transitions into dream sleep, there are unbidden, bizarre thoughts. During the day we enjoy our normal, well-accepted thoughts, which people enthusiastically modulate by spiking the chemical cocktails of the brain with alcohol, narcotics, cigarettes, coffee, or physical exercise. The state of the physical material determines the state of the thoughts.

And the physical material is absolutely necessary for normal thinking to tick along. If you were to injure your pinkie in an accident you’d be distressed, but your conscious experience would be no different. By contrast, if you were to damage an equivalently sized piece of brain tissue, this might change your capacity to understand music, name animals, see colors, judge risk, make decisions, read signals from your body, or understand the concept of a mirror — thereby unmasking the strange, veiled workings of the machinery beneath. Our hopes, dreams, aspirations, fears, comic instincts, great ideas, fetishes, senses of humor, and desires all emerge from this strange organ — and when the brain changes, so do we. So although it’s easy to intuit that thoughts don’t have a physical basis, that they are something like feathers on the wind, they in fact depend directly on the integrity of the enigmatic, three-pound mission control center.

The first thing we learn from studying our own circuitry is a simple lesson: most of what we do and think and feel is not under our conscious control. The vast jungles of neurons operate their own programs. The conscious you — the I that flickers to life when you wake up in the morning — is the smallest bit of what’s transpiring in your brain. Although we are dependent on the functioning of the brain for our inner lives, it runs its own show. Most of its operations are above the security clearance of the conscious mind. The I simply has no right of entry.

Your consciousness is like a tiny stowaway on a transatlantic steamship, taking credit for the journey without acknowledging the massive engineering underfoot. This book is about that amazing fact: how we know it, what it means, and what it explains about people, markets, secrets, strippers, retirement accounts, criminals, artists, Ulysses, drunkards, stroke victims, gamblers, athletes, bloodhounds, racists, lovers, and every decision you’ve ever taken to be yours.

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In a recent experiment, men were asked to rank how attractive they found photographs of different women’s faces. The photos were eight by ten inches, and showed women facing the camera or turned in three-quarter profile. Unbeknownst to the men, in half the photos the eyes of the women were dilated, and in the other half they were not. The men were consistently more attracted to the women with dilated eyes. Remarkably, the men had no insight into their decision making. None of them said, “I noticed her pupils were two millimeters larger in this photo than in this other one.” Instead, they simply felt more drawn toward some women than others, for reasons they couldn’t quite put a finger on.

So who was doing the choosing? In the largely inaccessible workings of the brain, something knew that a woman’s dilated eyes correlates with sexual excitement and readiness. Their brains knew this, but the men in the study didn’t — at least not explicitly. The men may also not have known that their notions of beauty and feelings of attraction are deeply hardwired, steered in the right direction by programs carved by millions of years of natural selection. When the men were choosing the most attractive women, they didn’t know that the choice was not theirs, really, but instead the choice of successful programs that had been burned deep into the brain’s circuitry over the course of hundreds of thousands of generations.

Brains are in the business of gathering information and steering behavior appropriately. It doesn’t matter whether consciousness is involved in the decision making. And most of the time, it’s not. Whether we’re talking about dilated eyes, jealousy, attraction, the love of fatty foods, or the great idea you had last week, consciousness is the smallest player in the operations of the brain. Our brains run mostly on autopilot, and the conscious mind has little access to the giant and mysterious factory that runs below it.

You see evidence of this when your foot gets halfway to the brake before you consciously realize that a red Toyota is backing out of a driveway on the road ahead of you. You see it when you notice your name spoken in a conversation across the room that you thought you weren’t listening to, when you find someone attractive without knowing why, or when your nervous system gives you a “hunch” about which choice you should make.

The brain is a complex system, but that doesn’t mean it’s incomprehensible. Our neural circuits were carved by natural selection to solve problems that our ancestors faced during our species’ evolutionary history. Your brain has been molded by evolutionary pressures just as your spleen and eyes have been. And so has your consciousness. Consciousness developed because it was advantageous, but advantageous only in limited amounts.

Consider the activity that characterizes a nation at any moment. Factories churn, telecommunication lines buzz with activity, businesses ship products. People eat constantly. Sewer lines direct waste. All across the great stretches of land, police chase criminals. Handshakes secure deals. Lovers rendezvous. Secretaries field calls, teachers profess, athletes compete, doctors operate, bus drivers navigate. You may wish to know what’s happening at any moment in your great nation, but you can’t possibly take in all the information at once. Nor would it be useful, even if you could. You want a summary. So you pick up a newspaper — not a dense paper like the New York Times but lighter fare such as USA Today. You won’t be surprised that none of the details of the activity are listed in the paper; after all, you want to know the bottom line. You want to know that Congress just signed a new tax law that affects your family, but the detailed origin of the idea — involving lawyers and corporations and filibusters — isn’t especially important to that new bottom line. And you certainly wouldn’t want to know all the details of the food supply of the nation — how the cows are eating and how many are being eaten — you only want to be alerted if there’s a spike of mad cow disease. You don’t care how the garbage is produced and packed away; you only care if it’s going to end up in your backyard. You don’t care about the wiring and infrastructure of the factories; you only care if the workers are going on strike. That’s what you get from reading the newspaper.

Your conscious mind is that newspaper. Your brain buzzes with activity around the clock, and, just like the nation, almost everything transpires locally: small groups are constantly making decisions and sending out messages to other groups. Out of these local interactions emerge larger coalitions. By the time you read a mental headline, the important action has already transpired, the deals are done. You have surprisingly little access to what happened behind the scenes. Entire political movements gain ground-up support and become unstoppable before you ever catch wind of them as a feeling or an intuition or a thought that strikes you. You’re the last one to hear the information.

However, you’re an odd kind of newspaper reader, reading the headline and taking credit for the idea as though you thought of it first. You gleefully say, “I just thought of something!”, when in fact your brain performed an enormous amount of work before your moment of genius struck. When an idea is served up from behind the scenes, your neural circuitry has been working on it for hours or days or years, consolidating information and trying out new combinations. But you take credit without further wonderment at the vast, hidden machinery behind the scenes.

And who can blame you for thinking you deserve the credit? The brain works its machinations in secret, conjuring ideas like tremendous magic. It does not allow its colossal operating system to be probed by conscious cognition. The brain runs its show incognito. So who, exactly, deserves the acclaim for a great idea? In 1862, the Scottish mathematician James Clerk Maxwell developed a set of fundamental equations that unified electricity and magnetism. On his deathbed, he coughed up a strange sort of confession, declaring that “something within him” discovered the famous equations, not he. He admitted he had no idea how ideas actually came to him — they simply came to him. William Blake related a similar experience, reporting of his long narrative poem Milton: “I have written this poem from immediate dictation twelve or sometimes twenty lines at a time without premeditation and even against my will.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe claimed to have written his novella The Sorrows of Young Werther with practically no conscious input, as though he were holding a pen that moved on its own.

And consider the British poet Samuel Taylor Coleridge. He began using opium in 1796, originally for relief from the pain of tooth-aches and facial neuralgia — but soon he was irreversibly hooked, swigging as much as two quarts of laudanum each week. His poem “Kubla Khan,” with its exotic and dreamy imagery, was written on an opium high that he described as “a kind of a reverie.” For him, the opium became a way to tap into his subconscious neural circuits. We credit the beautiful words of “Kubla Khan” to Coleridge because they came from his brain and no else’s, right? But he couldn’t get hold of those words while sober, so who exactly does the credit for the poem belong to? As Carl Jung put it, “In each of us there is another whom we do not know.” As Pink Floyd put it, “There’s someone in my head, but it’s not me.”

Excerpted from Incognito by David Eagleman. Copyright 2011 by David Eagleman. Excerpted by permission of Pantheon, a division of Random House Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.